Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Advise and Comment

Sometimes, when people get lost in their mind, is very hard for them to make a decision. At this moment, advise or some comment appear do help people in evaluating the decision.

Yesterday, I had given some comment to a friend. (Due to privacy, i choose not to unveil the case)

After talked to her, i cannot sleep the whole night, i start worried the words came out from my mouth will be affected her decision, or rather say will she make a wrong decision.

But, what i concern is, without some tough words, she cannot make up any mind, her life will be always control by other people, she live for other instead of herself.

Indeed, she is the one who facing the reality and fact in her whole life, friends and family will only act as supporters. Without a tough mind, nothing going to be succeed.

From her case, i felt nothing much is secure, marriage? friendship? definitely NO ...
Trust Yourself

Stand up all ladies!!!

3 Comments:

At 4:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

that's why women should have their own career.
anything happen in the future, at least, we can have our source of living.

-rach-

 
At 10:49 PM, Blogger M3 said...

赠你朋友一句静思语:凡事知足,就会海阔天空,少烦恼!(Practice being content, your world will become worry-free!)

 
At 9:27 PM, Blogger dreame said...

My friend is over satisfaction in her past life, therefore she never think before action. She never know how to solve problem as she used to have many people lending hand to her. But, this time she got really learnt something,Independant!!! I wish she can...

m3 may i know who are you?

 

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